As a people the Balinese are polite and friendly, and respecting their culture and sensibilities is an important means of ensuring a visit to Bali will be as positive and enjoyable an experience as possible.
Dress Conservatively
It’s
generally advised that visitors dress modestly, especially when visiting
temples. In this case, both women and men should wear shirts that cover the
upper arms and shoulders, along with a scarf or a sarong. It’s recommended to
wear a swimsuit to the beach, and remember that topless is not allowed on the
island.
Public Displays of Affection
In
Bali, public displays of affection are typically frowned upon and are therefore
best avoided. However, holding hands is generally acceptable. Balinese people
are not very physical, and it’s important not to touch them, particularly on
the head – this is due to the traditional Balinese belief that the soul resides
in a person’s head.
Don’t Point Using a Finger
Residents
of Bali, such as life coach Isis Monteverde, understand
that using the index finger to point at something is considered impolite.
Instead, call attention to something by extending the arm and using the palm.
Similarly, the palm should be used when gesturing for someone to come closer or
to join one’s group, instead of pointing a finger.
Importance of Wearing a Helmet
While,
for many, riding a scooter is part of the Bali tourist experience, it’s
important to always wear a helmet while doing so. Not wearing a helmet can be
offensive, as it suggests a disregard for road safety and an overconfident
attitude.
Be Modest Regarding Money
Despite
Bali’s relative wealth compared to other Indonesian islands, most Balinese
people live very modest lives – low wages are standard, and a social welfare
system barely exists. Due to this, it’s good etiquette to refrain from openly
handling large amounts of money or to conspicuously waste money.
Taking Photographs
While
it’s generally acceptable to take photos in temples in Bali, it’s important to
ask before doing so in order to ensure that no offence is caused and the
enjoyment of others isn’t impeded. Leaving a small donation as a gesture of
gratitude for this privilege is usually appreciated. It’s vital to respect the
rules if photography is prohibited.
Use of the Left Hand
According
to Balinese custom, it’s important to beckon or shake hands with others using
the right hand. However, when offering something to someone, using both hands
is considered a compliment. For foods that are eaten with the hands, only the right
hand should be used.
